- Oct 08 Mon 2012 17:32
塗塗 ∥ 累
- Oct 08 Mon 2012 10:39
QT ∥ 2012-10-08:過度確信反成驕傲
【2012 ∕ 10 ∕ 08】
QT:過度確信反成驕傲(約伯記05:01—05:16)
[生命泉源]
05:01 — | 你且呼求,有誰答應你?諸聖者之中,你轉向那一位呢? "'Call if you will, but who will answer you? To which of the holy ones will you turn? |
05:02 — | 忿怒害死愚妄人;嫉妒殺死癡迷人。 Resentment kills a fool, and envy slays the simple. |
05:03 — | 我曾見愚妄人扎下根,但我忽然咒詛他的住處。 I myself have seen a fool taking root, but suddenly his house was cursed. |
05:04 — | 他的兒女遠離穩妥的地步,在城門口被壓,並無人搭救。 His children are far from safety, crushed in court without a defender. |
05:05 — | 他的莊稼有飢餓的人喫盡了,就是在荊棘裏的也搶去了;他的財寶有網羅張口吞滅了。 The hungry consume his harvest, taking it even from among thorns, and the thirsty pant after his wealth. |
05:06 — | 禍患原不是從土中出來;患難也不是從地裏發生。 For hardship does not spring from the soil, nor does trouble sprout from the ground. |
05:07 — | 人生在世必遇患難,如同火星飛騰。 Yet man is born to trouble as surely as sparks fly upward. |
05:08 — | 至於我,我必仰望神,把我的事情託付他。 "But if it were I, I would appeal to God; I would lay my cause before him. |
05:09 — | 他行大事不可測度,行奇事不可勝數: He performs wonders that cannot be fathomed, miracles that cannot be counted. |
05:10 — | 降雨在地上,賜水於田裏; He bestows rain on the earth; he sends water upon the countryside. |
05:11 — | 將卑微的安置在高處,將哀痛的舉到穩妥之地; The lowly he sets on high, and those who mourn are lifted to safety. |
05:12 — | 破壞狡猾人的計謀,使他們所謀的不得成就。 He thwarts the plans of the crafty, so that their hands achieve no success. |
05:13 — | 他叫有智慧的中了自己的詭計,使狡詐人的計謀速速滅亡。 He catches the wise in their craftiness, and the schemes of the wily are swept away. |
05:14 — | 他們白晝遇見黑暗,午間摸索如在夜間。 Darkness comes upon them in the daytime; at noon they grope as in the night. |
05:15 — | 神拯救窮乏人脫離他們口中的刀和強暴人的手。 He saves the needy from the sword in their mouth; he saves them from the clutches of the powerful. |
05:16 — | 這樣,貧寒的人有指望,罪孽之輩必塞口無言。 So the poor have hope, and injustice shuts its mouth. |
省 思 語— | 我有沒有把受苦的原因歸咎到別人的錯誤上呢? |
省 思 語— | 當我只在外部尋找受苦的原因時,就會容易犯什麼錯誤呢? |
省 思 語— | 人有興盛衰亡。以利法認為原因不在於神,而在於人自己。 |
省 思 語— | 以驕傲的心說出來的忠告,無法結出美麗的果子。 |
- Oct 08 Mon 2012 10:03
育兒 ∥ 用科學方式來懲罰
孩子犯錯時要如何懲罰?
懲罰的目的是要讓孩子了解這件事是錯的、是不好的,而不是讓孩子將懲罰永留心中,卻忘了當初做錯的事。
懲罰寶寶,是每個父母培養孩子、糾正孩子錯誤的方式之一。
俗話說得好,沒有規矩不成方圓,孩子犯錯誤,自然需要父母的教育和懲罰。
但懲罰寶寶也要講求科學方式,一旦懲罰不當,不但對寶寶的行為起不到規範作用,更可能使寶寶的行為逆向發展。
如何在家庭教育中有效懲罰寶寶,下面十個方法科學又智慧。